Exercise controlling authority in a household, as in Grandma wears the pants at our house. This idiom, generally applied to women and dating from the mids, a time when they wore only skirts, equates pants with an authoritative and properly masculine role. Originally put as wear the breeches , it remains in use despite current fashions. In addition to the idiom beginning with pants. Nearby words pantoum , pantropic , pantropical , pantry , pantryman , pants , pants off, the , pantsuit , pantun , panty , panty girdle.
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These look best with a wider and long top and can be very flattering. This time he is allowed in, and he sits down and promptly begins "feeding" his clothes, putting food in the pockets and talking to his clothes at the same time. I am girdle I ware the pants stocking dependent. I now see I need to lose about 10 pounds. The only time you text him first is when you're checking to make sure he made it home safely after a night out. Dresses with trousers are a difficult thing for me, and you love the look. Here are some guidelines for wearing capri pants for women that will help. Make sure your capris are tapered. Appropriate Attire for a White House Tour. Either way, my dressing provides me a balance Tribbing pics idea positions calm that I just can't explain.
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Top definition. Wear the Pants unknown. To " wear the pants " in a relationship is to be the person in charge of the relationship , whether that being the man or the woman, even though it is usually the man. Jane "Bitch, go do the laundry " Derek "No! To own each situation like a farmer owns a donkey noun 1. A robust and compelling call to manhood, not unlike a Viking blowing his horn from a mountain top or submarine captain ordering his men to fire torpedoes 2.
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The skirt length rule is over the top I agree but I signed on for it when I took the job. Here are 5 more chic ways to wear leopard print in summer. I suppose I will pin them up and try some shoes first and the tucked in top. One question: you show 3 pictures with outfits you posted in the past. It was bought years ago in a little shop in Bali.
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What a neat idea that was to invent such a wonderful thing to wear. Been wearing panties for almost 4 years now. I started more or less as an experiment looking for comfortable underwear and since regular men's underwear wasn't cutting it as far as comfort.
I had a hard time finding a balance between loose enough to not constrict or tight enough to keep everything in place and stable. Typically it'd be too loose and I'd slip out or so tight it hurt. So as a lark I thought I'd try some panties just basic Fruit of the Looms or Hanes and was rather stunned how much more comfortable it was as they held things great as well as the softer cotton felt so much better.
So yeah since then I've expanded into many different brands: Soma, Victoria's Secret, Bali, Maidenform, Wacoal and others as well as moved from just panties to bras, sleepwear, socks, jeans, shirts and shoes.
My Sister-in-Law gave me my first Bra. She said I needed to wear one. She has me now wearing Panties, Stockings and my first Nightgown Pink. I now have over 50 Bras and Panties in my collection!!! I'm married 67 been wearing nylon and satin panties sincevi was Love the colors the look and the great way they feel next to skin. My wife is happy I wear what makes me feel comfortable.
You're the best. Any fella of yours is fortunate indeed. Bless you madam! Three years ago I stopped wearing my hipster jockeys and started panties. I have a very big collection or panties, currently just over Different fabrics, colors and designs. Just to add to the collection I have shareware, bras,, lingerie, stockings and my fav garters. I love the feeling of the garters bouncing off my thighs.
Yes, I also have dresses, jeans, tops and formal attire. And finely shoes! It's true what they say about women and their shoes. Soooo wear what you want, it's not cross freeing, it's GenDressing. That's right. I have worn women's clothes since 5 yrs old, now in my 50's I only wear female clothes. I dont own any guys stuff at all. I love dressing up in women's stockings they feel so good and so smooth and sexy I love the way they feel rubbing up using my cock I also like getting dressed up makes me to feel sexy there's nothing like wearing stockings and sexy lingerie I so like putting on sexy dress you having your woman feel you up.
Then she didn't want me any more Hopefully by now you have gotten your guy into dresses too. My brother like wearing dresses cause he says they are more comfortable than tight restricting jeans. He enjoys it so I told him to wear what he wants. When I was 12 I stole a woman's satin panties and wore them. They felt so good that I walked to the mall about a mile and spent my allowance on more. Wife of 15 years loves it. Why do people say that men wearing women's clothes is not bad as long as it doesn't "hurt" anyone.
Why do women feel hurt when their men dress like this? They wear men's clothes? In fact the women's open-bottom girdle best suits the male. Preferably something like a Playtex hour girdle that has no fancy frills or bows but is very functional. Even the suspenders look functional lashed down to ordinary nylons rather than hold ups with lace tops.
Black stockings are most suitable for the male under trousers as well, preferably under loose Oxford bags. As a lot of men have taken to wearing some kind of slimming garment now such garments cost a lot. Thus the womens' girdles would be a lot more reasonably priced. And as for myself I find the high waisted Playtex hour the most comfortable and the best. And whether you're male or female wearing a girdle feels the same. It's tough going at first but you get well used to it after a while.
It makes you sit up straight, you don't want to sit in low seats or armchairs, and you need to stand up for relief quite a bit.
In walking it's fine but you have to bend your knees to pick something off the floor. Ascending a stairs or even a hi;;y street can hitch it up. The waistband is no joke, your buttocks are crushed in together all the time and your thighs held in together by the lower hem of the girdle. The satin front panel secures your belly flat with great relief.
You feel the force of the nylons against your knees but it's a nice feeling, especially around the calves of your legs. Your feet feel much better than in men's socks. You may need to wear a longline bra that goes down over the waistband of the girdle so as to eliminate any pushed-up flesh. You will always feel the girdle on, though after a while it's not that bad at all. It can even feel good at the backside and thighs, great where the front panel supports the belly, and good all round as it holds you up firmly.
We get very used to it all to such an extent that we miss it when it's off. All in all whether you're a woman or a man it does what it's job abd you feel all the better for that.
I've been wearing panties since I was I wouldn't wear a bra but it was fun. When I was courting my future wife wanted us to wear the same kind of vanity fair panties.
She loved to masturbate me in my panties in public and in bed. She would giggle every time I made a mess in my panties. After 40years of marriage she died. I'm now with my second wife and she has no reservation about my wearing panties. After tem years we enjoy each other in nice panties. I personally can not se what is wrong with men wearing knicker they are lovely to wear having more style than men's undies not to mention couloirs and patterns.
Slips and dresses are so comfortable. I wish I could wear them in public. Yet, being a man doesn't really make this appropriate. I have Crohn's Disease and sometimes during a flare, pants does not really seem to be my best friend.
I live with my father, and I do own one dress and slip that I bought for a Halloween costume and I could wear it around the house when he's not around or sleeping and I do, but he shames me when he sees his son in a dress. I don't know what the big deal really is. It's only clothing and as long as you're comfortable, who cares. Why is it wrong for men to wear lingerie,if it makes them feel good wear what you want.
I have been wearing girdles since I have been 17 years old. My current girl friend accepts this and even suggests I do more which I will do. I am girdle and stocking dependent. I have been wearing panties, bras and nighties for years, my wife likes to see me wearing them, we have started about two months ago with suspenders, stockings, heels, wigs and makeup so very sexy, will not be too long and I will be into full cross dressing. As a hetero man I wear female silk nylon panties all the time underneath my nightgowns or sleepshirts.
The only time I don't wear this stuff is when I have company over at the house. I live by myself so I have the freedom and right to wear this every single day if I wanted to.
I have respect for people so I choose not to wear this stuff in front of them making them feel awkward or uncomfortable so I usually wear more appropriate attire. I know it looks strange and awkward so I don't try to push it as being something that people should have to see.
The only types of people I would wear this in front of is somebody who would be comfortable with it and understand it. This is pretty much my home at work attire everyday as a matter of fact I'm wearing silk nylon panties right now underneath my new tank knee-length sleepshirt that I just brought last week and it all feels so comfortable. Everything on me feels so light right now that it feels like I have nothing else on. I get aroused in it all the time so I love the feminine feel to this.
My best experience with wearing this kind of feminine attire is around a lady friend I had a while ago who accepted me for wearing this. She knew I wasn't gay and thought that was the best part of me getting in touch of my feminine side because everything else I did in my life was on the manly side.
She would visit me all the time while I wore my nightgowns and sleepshirts with the panties on underneath. It was even better when she wore certain outfits that turned me on when she came over like sexy dresses and stuff and even better since I had a fetish for overalls she would wear those sometimes and get me turned on as she could be dominant in that kind of attire. We would have sleepovers and stuff like that where she wore her nightgowns and stuff around me and lounge all day in our attire.
Boy I miss her a lot but she had to move to a different country because of her job. That time with her was awesome and it makes me think that I won't find quite another woman like her anytime soon so if you're a male that's lucky enough to share this with another woman or even man definitely take advantage of it and count your blessings.
At the end of the day I'm living out a fantasy everyday of having the freedom to experience my fetish on a regular basis I know most men aren't as lucky as I am with this role of attire.
I'm going to live my life the way I want to since it's my life but I'm also going to have respect for people and not sharing this aspect of my life with them unless they're open to it. My lovely wife has known about my crossdressing since before we married. She does not encourage me or participate in any way. I keep my body and legs smooth shaven, and would love for my wife to encourage; even better; order me to wear sheer nylons on a regular basis for her inspection, seeing as I keep my legs so feminine.
Thus; I would enjoy a dominant side to her nature. She could even tease me about my crossdressing; calling me her feminine "bitch husband". Also; I've always had fantasies and thoughts of my wife having an intimate relationship with another man. I've had these feelings since before we were married; but could never tell her, as I never thought she could be open-minded or accepting enough to include them in our marriage.
Maybe too little; too late! My spouse and myself have enjoyed our love of stylish, feminine, beautiful, sensuously arousing attire. We especially adore our collection of high heels. At least 4 to 6 inch stilettos They make our legs look longer and with the enhancement of our tights and pantyhose, the look is more complete.
We usually just dress in our pretty attire at home. We have a motor home and we have gone out in our attire and traveled full on in sexy, exotic attire. It is so expressive of our indulging in our years of this now more acceptable lifestyle. It may be a bit over the top but we none the less find this extremely fun and it spices up our sex lives.
I love wearing women's panties and leggings, I love the feeling and I'm gay. They make me feel like a woman and they're comfortable than men's underwear.
I am a very hetero male and I wear panties every day. I am very happily married and all my wife's friends even though they don't know if wear panties always ask, do you have any brothers or friends like you. Hiya I wished I why but I love nothing more than pulling on a silky pair of pantiles, for some reason they get me so aroused and tingling feelings on my bum and privates I wished I could meet a woman who shares this interest, I think I would find it very difficult to discuss my pantie wearing pleasure with a girlfriend, great article, D T.
My wife was aware of my crossdressing before we married. She does not participate or encourage me in any way. I keep my body and legs smooth shaven, and would love for my wife to encourage, even better, order me to wear sheer nylons on a regular basis, seeing as I keep my legs so feminine. She could also tease me about my crossdressing, calling me her feminine, "bitch husband". She probably would never understand my feelings.
My wife knew of my crossdressing before we were married. I keep my body and legs smooth shaven, and would love for my wife to encourage, even better, order me to wear sheer nylons an a regular basis, seeing as I keep my legs so feminine. She could even tease me about my crossdressing, calling me her feminine, "bitch husband". Also; I've always had thoughts and fantasies of my wife openly flirting with other men, even having an intimate relationship with another man.
She would have my encouragement and support. I've had these thoughts and feelings since before we were married, but could never tell her, as I didn't want her to think I didn't love her, also, I didn't think she could be open-minded and accepting enough to include them in our marriage.
Maybe too little; too late. I know a guy is really dedicated if he will wear a bra for me. I live in relatively conservative Davenport, Ia. It's sort of our romantic secret when we go out together. I have gotten guys to wear corsets, stockings, girdles, and pantyhose for me under their guy clothes. I don't want any of it to show n the outside, but it's sexy knowing that I can get a guy to do it for me.
I would never want a guy to try to wear makeup or try pass as a woman. I want it to be underneath as our romantic secret. It's really fun if I can get a guy to take me on a trip while wearing panties underneath. I know if they are willing to wear a bra for me then they probably are going to be willing to take me to the Caribbean, etc.
I came across your Hub about a year ago and have been hooked ever since. I slowly introduced the practice of draping my man in Lingerie and it became a semi regular event in the bedroom and when I just wanted to be close and sit on the couch wrapped in the arms of the man I had just spent 2 hours making into my best girlfriend ha ha.
My partner recently had a very stressful time at work and some health problems and we had not dressed for a long time. I begun to share the stress and started to really miss my best girlfriend as he was somehow a different person when dressed, just more relaxed and easy going and open.
I love both of him so I didn't push for my female companion. Then he lost his job and I had the idea of the century. I suggested we go on holidays to our time share place on the beach but he detach himself from his illness and his job loss stress and allow me to dress him as my best girlfriend the entire two weeks of the vacation.
He thought about it and decided to try it but take enough male clothes as well if we wanted to go out for dinner or he wanted to be himself. I also did some extra shopping for him in the female clothing department cause I wanted to spoil him with new stuff.
I feel good in new stuff so he should too. After the first 2 days of being dressed from head to toe as a girl 24hrs a day, he slipped rite into the role and started to really relax, forget about the world and just be together with me and be open and loving and happy. A few weeks later and he is still calling it the best holiday he has ever had away from himself.
There are lots of good reasons for a man to dress in lingerie or as someone else and escapism, even if temporary is the best one I have found so far. I wear bras I also panties 24x7 I haven't gone to the girddel yet but I also wear panty hose I have been doing this now for the last 12 months.
I wear panties 24X7. I don't even own any "male" underwear. My doctors and others have all seen me in panties and I have rarely even gotten a snicker from anyone. I also wear mini skirts and I wear a woman's bikini in our pool and to the beach.
Does any body know the best time for a first time lingiere buyer to go to a lingiere store? I have worn women's clothes for 30 years now and can't imagine life any other way. What started with pantyhose in my hormone raged teens, has grown into full transitions that include dresses, high heels, bra with forms, wig, make up, etc when I met my wife. Little did I know that she too has a huge passion for pantyhose and likes to see her man turn into her woman.
I am very passable so maybe that's why. Either way, my dressing provides me a balance and calm that I just can't explain. And most of all, having my wife love, accept, and desire my fem side is the foundation that it's all built upon. My first wife was not accepting, so I told myself that whoever I meet and am attracted to, I'm going to throw caution to the wind and show all of my cards.
I did on our 2nd date. I told her I didn't really know why I liked these things, but I do and that they are a part of me. I also assured her that I had no hidden motives to sneak out or do anything stupid like that.
Honesty up front made all this work. She taught me how to apply make up, dress, and polish up my fem side to the point that we can go out and hardly anyone notices that I'm actually male.
So much fun! Thank you Lord for sending her to me! Delighted with this site must say that i do also enjoy wearing lingerie and have done so for over 40 years but am still terified of been caught out. I wear girdles bras tights knicers slips camisoles chemise's on a daily basis. And would wear skirts as well but am afreid ao getting caught out as i live in a small town and am known by everyone and could not live it down. The sooner that people both women and men allow us to dress as we like without ridducule the better.
Sad to say that there are still some self propclamed people who think that they have thr right to assault us for wearing lingerie what right do they have we do not tell them what they can wear so just lweave us alone. They are so much more comforting then mens boxers or tighty-whiteys. The ones I wear are nylon size 7 briefs or bikini cut briefs. I enjoy them tremendously. Recently however my girlfriend has been wanting me to extend my wardrobe to include skirts and dresses.
She bought me 2 skorts 1 navy blue, 1 khaki and 3 plaid skirts. I tried them on for her and they did fit. How she knew what sizes to get I'll never know. She stated to me that men can now wear skirts and wanted to go out for the evening.
After she showed me several articles of guys out and about in cities, I agreed to try it. WE went to a restaurant. I wore the navy blue skort, a light blue mens shirt and a navy sports coat.
Believe it or not I was botherted by anyone while at the restaurant, later we went to a movie with the same reactions. I was amazed. Now she wants to try a dark blue dress she purchased, What do you think? I'm against it, although I did like the feelings the skirt gave me. I couldn't agree more with you about not putting men in boxes. I have to admit I was taken somewhat by surprise when I first discovered my husband in lingerie. I wish he would have felt that he could trust be enough to have trusted me with his secret but I can somewhat understand his fear.
At first I have to admit at first for some reason I was a bit angry and had a lot of unanswered questions about this man. But the more I thought about it the sillier my fears seemed, as you say just because a man wears lingerie that doesn't make him any less of a man. Now I actually encourage him a bit by buying him gifts of lingerie. I love my manly man but I also love his demeanor when he is in a camisole and bra.
He seems so much more attentive and demure, it is during some of these moments when we have had some of our deepest conversations. I did lay the law down to him though, this is our little secret, I won't have his so called friends laughing at him behind his back.
In addition he has agreed to keep his legs, arms, chest and back hair free and since I have no intention of shaving his back he goes to my salon for waxing. The girls there are friends of mine and are quite discreet. It just looked too silly wearing a lacy bra on a hairy chest. He really does look quite cute when he's dressed in his lingerie and we have played around with makeup and hair to accentuate his appearance when he dresses.
I really wanted to see what his limits were so on a couple of occasions for fun we experimented with a few other articles of clothing. The only objection I have gotten to date was when I suggested it would be a lot easier if he would come with me to buy his lingerie so he could be fitted.
He told me he didn't think he could, but I have gotten him to go out dressed with me to a gay bar one night for a drag show. I just thought he might find the experience freeing, but instead he just sat there like a deer in headlights. I love the man I married and I have accepted that we all have our peculiarities.
I wouldn't expect him to tell me what to wear or not to wear and I wouldn't trade this man who likes lingerie for all the manly men in the world. I love to wear panties. They are just nice underwear and comfortable. My wife sometimes buys them for me and she thinks they look good on me. I guess there's this notion that it's not masculine or something. Maybe it falls into the same category as men shouldn't cry either. Who gives a flip. It's a fee country and since I started looking into this stuff on line, it seems that many men wear panties.
You split the check, or you pay. You're busy, and he just wants to check in. It's kind of sweet. You just aren't sitting around constantly thinking about him. The only time you text him first is when you're checking to make sure he made it home safely after a night out. He's the one who gets teary-eyed.
He isn't afraid to show you his feelings, and you're just struggling to understand them. You know it takes a real man to be vulnerable. There really isn't anything better than sliding in behind him and snuggling between his shoulder blades. You may be spooning him, but it's a delightful cuddling experience for both of you. He doesn't want the weird boner and face full of hair; you don't want a limp wrist between your boobs. Everyone wins. You are a strong-ass lady. You've found yourself yelling at people regularly over him.
No one is going to be disrespectful to your man in front of you. You'd be the first one to throw a punch in a bar, and you aren't ashamed of it. Being in a more dominant, masculine role means that you get used to being in control of most facets of your relationship. You choose the restaurants, the bars and the vacation spots.
It can get very difficult to argue with you because you're not used to being told what to do. Like most guys, you have your softer moments behind closed doors. He loves these moments. He lives for them. They don't know what to make of it. They see you two and wonder why you get away with being so bossy and aggressive.
Those people are stupid. You are a successful, career-driven woman. You put yourself and your career above all else, and you are not sorry about it.
Your boyfriend supports your ambitions and successes without hesitation. He's with you because you're independent and driven, not in spite of it. Your boyfriend likes talking about the future and what it holds for the two of you. You're more of a carpe-diem kind of person. As much as you're not planning ahead, you don't mind hearing that he's future oriented. It's a little scary, but it's also exciting. He has a really close relationship with your mother.
Your parents love him because how could they not? He's lovely, sweet and actually treats you nicely. He's the kind of person they see you ending up with. It adds some pressure to your relationship, but it's better than your parents hating him! You see all your girlfriends throwing away their time alone for being with their boyfriends.
You hate when they ditch you for plans and seem to fall off the face of the earth just because they found a bae.
Urban Dictionary: Wear the Pants
The phrase is typically applied to a woman, contrasting the fact that pants were historically only worn by men, who were traditionally the decision makers. Often followed by "in the family" or "in the house. Actually, in our relationship, we both wear the pants—we make decisions together. Exercise controlling authority in a household, as in Grandma wears the pants at our house. This idiom, generally applied to women and dating from the mids, a time when they wore only skirts, equates pants with an authoritative and properly masculine role.
Originally put as wear the breeches , it remains in use despite current fashions. See wear the pants in the house. To be boss. This term was long applied to women, particularly wives, who assumed the domineering household role that was believed to belong to the husband. It dates from a time when only men wore pants or breeches and women wore skirts exclusively, at least in the Western world.
It reflects, of course, an indelibly sexist attitude. Idioms browser? Full browser?